2 Busy...

Ah since this is a singles blog I might as well mention that I happened to catch the tail end of this - yet again another reality show - of single women and their adventures - There were a few tips and advice tid bits in the show - when I catch it again maybe I will pay more attention hehe - 2 busy now .....
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Clouds before the Sunshine?

Soz it looks like Ima have a busy week this week. I was looking forward to seeing the sunshine states... Maybe even the Grand Canyon.......

But then it hit me a few days ago........ Crap! For me to enjoy this sun-filled vacation that I am about to embark on ..... I have to first endure a ...... Gulp........ Wedding! I practically forgot about that minor detail (despite the fact that is supposed to be the main reason for traveling to Cali this time anyways) Bleh! Bleh because its not my own of course! hehe... No no not being bitter at all....Lets just leave it at the fact this is not a cousin I am close to. Then there are all the childhood thoughts on marriage that have fizzled away that I am usually able to tune out by now anyhow....

BUT then there is also the dreaded...... "Ok lets have all the single women gather on the dance floor to catch the bouquet!" - Lately at the weddings I just stay put during this event and finish off my dessert. Or if I am up dancing I find my seat quickly. Who knows what I will do this time, and really.... does it reeeeaaalllly mean that if you catch the bouquet you will be the next to marry? Does it? Or is it some sick joke someone made up just to see a bunch of grown women in their dresses and heels and gowns wrestle each other like a bunch of crazed desperate lunatics in hopes to be the next to marry? Is it really worth the eye gouging, hair pulling, ankle spraining, face scratching, elbow ribbing, shin kicking effort?
Or hey now.... is it bad luck NOT to join in on this event? I dunno. I never thought of that before.
Well none the less I hope its an open bar - although there will be family around. I'm tiny so I'm pretty much a cheap drunk hehe. At my age, Im sure they would understand ;P

Hunky Man says : "Would you like some meat?"

Ah! They were everywhere!
Hunky Brazilian men offering their meat!
Everywhere I turned, they would catch my eye and smile.
And the meat they were offering was yummy, Ohhhhh was it ever!
Juicey and oh so tastey!
And the hunks of meat they were offering were big... and I mean BIG!

What a place!
I would definately go there again!
Next time I'll bring my gfs along too so they can savor the same!
Such candy for the eyes and tastebuds!

Where was I ?
No no, not at a stagette.

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Ok ok I was just at this restaurant with my family celebrating fathers day. And it is a pretty new concept for me anyhow to have the somewhat hunky waiters walking around with huge skewers of Grilled beef, pork and chicken and offering it fresh for every table, along with the brazilian buffet. I'm not a huge fan of red meat but it was a pretty good restaurant and I have never had brazillian food so bonus! I love trying new foods! They even offered Grilled pineapple on the skewers ! Oh YUM!

What does this have to do with singledom? Nothing really hehe, the concept was nice though ;) and so with the food!

A Mis-Quote:

"Dont they say: Abstinence makes the heart grow fonder?"

Ha ha so cute I dont think my friend noticed the mistake in his quote.

"Who cares what they think?!"

Whats been on my mind lately?
Ah the never ending question of all singletons....
What? ... is it me? or is it them? is it me is it them? me? them? ARRRAAAGH?!

Well I think for the most part I am mostly to blame for not being my true self in certain situations or preventing myself from being who I want to be or doing what I want to do - I have to get over the burdon of worrying what others would think of me. Being the observer with many opinions for too long that I should just get over myself and stop being so self concious......

In reading some other blogs from singles it seems this is a common theme. The suggestions : this approach or that approach or this method that works and this method that doesnt, the whole PUA thing etc, smile this way, show only six teeth (?!), Laugh like "hehe" not "ha ha", do this do that, say this, say that..... Arrraagh! It shouldnt be so complicated. It sounds like a cliche and so easy to do but "just being yourself" is not always easy as it sounds....

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Species and fidelity......

Weekend mornings I still have an alarm to get me up. Naturally I wake around 6:30 due to the habit of the normal weekday alarm, but I plonk back to sleep until my alarm goes off at around 10 am on weekends. This is weird, I know but it is just to make sure I dont sleep till 1 pm - which has happened before - then my whole sleep time is thrown off....
blah blah blah

This am, the alarm went off at 10 to the sound of the radio DJ giving out meaningless 'facts' between songs. I dont know what the topic was this morning, but this is what I caught:

Reasons why ppl cheat:
"Women cheat because they want reassurance that they are still desirable"
"Men cheat because they want more sex and more variety"

Yes - sad stuff to hear on a Sunday morning.....


In BIO101 @ UofT they talked about different species and their mating habits:
They explained that among certain species, the male tends to stray and among other certain species the female tends to stray.. ...I'm just not sure which is which, birds, fish etc (grrr at my memory). I think it all came down to the ratio of males to females in a given species and the reproduction rate of that species. So.... If we look at the ratio of males to females in humans...haha... ok ok I wont go there (again hehe).

I remember one time a friend of mine told me that among the different species .... "Foxes are mates for LIFE" Even when one is injured the other takes its body and brings it to a safe place and doesnt leave it until it passes away. Then it buries its body and never has another mate for the rest of its life.
Awww isnt that sweet? :)

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