Heaven forbid I become one of ....them!

So today I was talking to a gf of mine and I was bitching about this gal I had an encounter with and how she is really STUPID.

Ya it had to do with relationship stuff. And this other gal was ... well just being stupid! I wont bother getting into the details yet anyhow. But I was actually on this Stupid gals side! Tryin to let her see that she is above this dude, and that its no loss anyhow. Then she bites my head off and takes offence to what I say.

My friend clearly saw my point of view. However I do realize she is only listening to my side anyhow and has never met this other gal. Ah but even so.

So my point was totally misunderstood and infact I think when they say love (or whatever people think love is) is blind - that was not an understatement.

I was thinking how much do some gals degrade themselves over some stupid men who clearly treat them as shit? Why do they make excuses for them? I hate to see it and I have no idea why it bugs me so much when I am not involved in the situation to begin with. Maybe its the sense that "US" as women should look out for eachother and encourage eachother and show eachother that we deserve more, or maybe its because I'm afraid of - Heaven forbid - ahem, the title above?.
Ya, anyhoo - so thats the last time I try to be DR. Phil to some strange woman anyhow. My precious advice is only reserved for dear friends only. I mean I am one to be touchy when someone gives me advice but I do tend to reflect on it and push my anger aside and try to see their point if they are reasonable.... (maybe my friends would beg to differ who knows hehe). But heck, I was not the only one giving the same advice to this gal. My point? If one person tells you what your wearing is ugly - fine its just one persons opinion. But if many many different people say the same thing, dont you think you should take a look at your own wardrobe?

Why do women take offence to other women's advice ? Maybe she wouldnt have took it the wrong way if the advice was coming from a man. She went on to argue her point over and over and I kept quiet listening to the irony in it all. Total blindness.

My friend said "Maybe she is desperate? How old is she? We figured that she is a good what.. 5 or 6 yrs older than us. Maybe she is a cougar? Maybe omg .... our eyes will be blurred like her when we get to her age?" Great. My friend scared me there for a second. Who knows all things are possible these days. I cant ever rule out the fact that I may become like her. However she has a history of doing the same thing.
Anyhow..... I know I should be more understanding with it all since I am not the one going through what she is going through. I just kept wondering why it bothered me so much. Maybe its because she tried to correct me when its obvious she is blind to what I said.

What can I take from all this?
- No matter how much you tell people they are worth more than what they think - They truely are only worth what they allow themselves to be worth.
- I should really stop giving advice unless people ask (Ha! I can see my friends smirking right about now!) I just dont see how I can, when (believe it or not) I wish that good hearted people deserve to treated right - even though they dont see it themselves!
-And lastly, I told my gf to pleeeeease shoot me if I end up acting as stupid as this gal did.